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Girl gamers unmasked Flame On
   September 2nd, 2010 clock image 12:15 pm

Fantasy girl gamer

Well, over the coming weeks Gavin and the Lazygamer gang have asked me to look at gaming culture – if there is such a thing – and explore the pastime from a more casual playing perspective. And where better to start in this regard than with the inevitable topic of girl gamers? Where are they? What are they playing? And if they are playing, why are they not here on this site ranting and raving about their gaming passion?

This may surprise you, but girl gamers are actually everywhere, and they’re surprisingly diverse in their tastes. Regardless of what the media and marketers insist, women aren’t solely interested in playing with digital doll houses, ponies, puppies and SingStar. Instantly pigeonholing women’s tastes like this is counterproductive – our favourite gaming flavours are just as varied as yours.

Not every guy likes First Person Shooters. Not every girl likes The Sims. Of course there are women out there – and I know a couple personally – who own every Sims expansion in existence, and have taken their Sims families easily past the 8 generations mark. At the same time though I know women who’ll load up Tomb Raider during their down time, women who were giddy over StarCraft II midnight launch events, and women who routinely crave a session of Need For Speed. And personally, the unexpected Sims Medieval is the first game in the mega-successful franchise that excites me. And I doubt I’m alone.

The point is that women aren’t just playing “girlie games.” The clichés are redundant because our preferences are pretty damn diverse – as is the choice of games available to satisfy our cravings.

Let’s also not forget that gaming has been a common source of entertainment in households since the early 1980s, with children and adults crowding around the Atari 2600 and the Commadore 64 (really showing my age here!). From then to now, that’s 30 years of exposure to gaming – which is a hefty chunk of time. So it’s no wonder that women currently in their 30s, and their younger “sisters” of course, would play games during their hobby hours. And I’m not even talking about the middle-aged FarmVille and Bejeweled addicts, who are technically gamer girls even if they’re not playing the high profile, graphically intense, new releases that hog most of the gaming press.

Younger generations of women are used to gaming; and I like to think that there’s no longer much of a “Boys Only!” stigma attached to the activity. Cosmopolitan magazine may not run a games feature, but Saltwater Girl certainly does, and it’s targeted at femmes in their teens and early 20s.

Of course, you may be asking why, if gaming is such a common pastime among women, you don’t see many ladies trawling gaming forums or commenting on gaming blogs? That I believe boils down to the difference between hardcore, leet gamers and their casual counterparts. That difference is complicated enough to warrant a full column’s explanation. And that is coming soon…

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  • easy

    this explains why the ad blocks you guys have keeps populating with nutri-care(?) shampoo and now currently sims3… or maybe addynamo just thinks i’m a lady-person!

    anyway, females aren’t as vocal as males, because they lack the “fighting talk” appendage. so it doesn’t surprise me there doesn’t appear to be large contingent.

  • Sir James vannie Kaap

    Uhm.. there are also guys who own all the Sims expacs, and no damnit, I’m heterosexual, you bleddy agents!! :blush:

  • http://www.lazygamer.co.za Gavin Mannion

    ad dynamo? Are we still posting those?

  • spl0it

    Hardcore Girl Gamers are extremely rare. I think I have met 1 in my entire life, the other just fall into the “I like to play games” categories

  • Sir James vannie Kaap

    My cousin is about 15 years old now, and she’s a huge FPS and fighting game fan. I wouldn’t be surprised if there aren’t more girls who are into games. As for the wife, she’s definitely not a gamer (even though I’ve tried to get her onto Sims.. which freaking hell got me hooked instead – :getlost: ), but I’m guessing her (and my) generation has viewed games as an exclusively male hobby, and it’s hard to break entrenched views.

    I’m all for women getting interested into games, and even more so if they become developers.

  • al360

    dude i didn’t even read the article (sorry) but the pic is off the hook lol

  • Uncle

    There are more hardcore PC girl gamers than there are console girl gamers (from my experience anyways).

    Go on to World of Warcraft and you’ll find tons of hardcore girl gamers who trash the boys most of the time. However they almost always play healing classes.

  • ewie

    Do we count them the same way as Unicorns
    Or is it a Pig flying.

  • http://www.lazygamer.co.za Gavin Mannion

    If you enjoyed the article and are interested in more things like this please use the buttons on the right to share it…

    It’s the best way for us to see what sort of feature columns your guys (and girls) would like

  • FireFlyZA

    If other girl gamers out there are anything like me, I prefer to read all the rubbish you guys go on about and often laugh at the ignorance of some of the guys who think they hardcore gamers but in fact no jack shit :smile:

    There is definately an increase in female console gamers recently and I think it is great. I just wish that the new female gamers would come to play games and enjoy games and not come to flirt with every guy in the lobby!!!

  • Sir James vannie Kaap

    Or Orc warlocks and shamans…

  • Sir James vannie Kaap

    There are game lobbies populated with girls flirting? How come I’m always in the one with some redneck American calling everyone “fags” or screaming at all the “noobs”? :( It’s like being on chatroulette, but without the unpleasant imagery… :blink:

  • Uncle

    Hardcore female console gamers are on the rise for sure. But I think the older crowds stick more to PC gaming. MooDy for instance loves her PC gaming!

  • Uncle

    ERK! Crows = Crowds… where is the edit button. I am going to be lynched. :cwy:

  • Uncle

    Shamans heal! :D

  • Sir James vannie Kaap

    LOL! Yeah! “FROST SHOCK!”

  • TT-25

    I am a girl gamer and proud of it. I am on gaming sites every day and forums, I just dont have the want to post a comment and then get shot down by stupid arrogant “this is a mans world” kind of guys. So I read the news, get very excited about new games and share it with the people who dont have a problem with girl gamers.
    Its nice to see a girl gamer on this site now.

    YAY for Lazygamer YAY

  • Sir James vannie Kaap

    And druids, although I think all those Night Elf female druids on WOW are actually guys… the real women play tauren.

  • MrG

    “Of course, you may be asking why, if gaming is such a common pastime among women, you don’t see many ladies trawling gaming forums or commenting on gaming blogs?”

    I’d guess it’s because this is an environment where an article about girl gamers *starts* with a T&A special.

  • http://www.lazygamer.co.za Gavin Mannion

    lol I was thinking the exact same thing you were

  • http://www.lazygamer.co.za Gavin Mannion

    fixed… the edit button will arrive one day… hopefully

  • Philip

    It’s pretty funny when you try to reconcile the article’s content (Girls are gamers too! It’s not just a boy’s club!) with a picture of a woman playing games whose “clothed” status approaches “barely there”.

    Like, way to reinforce the stereotype of gamers exclusively being pasty-faced guys who wouldn’t know a real girl from a blade of grass, playing Xbox in the dark.

    No wonder women don’t want to be publicly associated more with this kind of shit.

  • G

    Personally I know 5 pretty hardcore gamers in real life. 2 on console and 3 on PC… But since ive started playing around in MMO’s Ive come to realise that there are just as many gals as guys…
    Some of them scarily hardcore :shocked:

  • Philip

    Beat me to the punch, you did :P

  • easy

    yeah that’s what i’m seeing under the review scores block

  • eXp

    Who plays games in the underwear and high heals? … you know, apart from Geoff.

  • Sir James vannie Kaap

    I game in my underwear too. In fact, the second I get home, the pants drop and I hang around the house in my boxers. It’s more comfortable that way…

    I get your point though, but do you remember Uhuru in the old 1960s Star Trek series? Do you remember those really short miniskirts the starfleet women used to wear? Sexist right? They exploited those women right?

    Wrong! The reason they wore those miniskirts was because it was the opposite of how women were viewed during the 50s and 60s. It was actually an expression of feminism, rather then blatant female exploitation by men.

    It’s amazing how things have changed over the years. Show some flesh and immediately it’s against female suffrage and gender equality.

  • easy

    fair enough, but i’m pretty certain that if the writer decided to post an image of a pasty-faced heffer wrapped up in a yak jacket, the click count would be abysmal.

  • Sir James, Knight of Bobby Kotick

    In any case Phil (may I call you Phil?), you’re reading into it too much, since the image is a play on the persistent stereotype that women are not really gamers but mere eye candy. Obviously, Noelle counters this impression with an engaging column that the opposite sex do in fact enjoy gaming, regardless of it still being filled with immature, testosterone-filled territorial primates.

  • nicole

    I feel ya! I don’t even bother commenting usually for the same reason. Not that all the guys are like that but there’s just that one, you know?

  • Philip

    So it’s okay, because sex sells, right? Well hell, fuck professionalism, we’re getting ad revenue!

  • Sir James, Knight of Bobby Kotick

    I really wish that you guys comment more though, as for the occasional sexist dumbass (there’s always one), I’m sure the lazygamer staff will put him in his place.

  • Sir James, Knight of Bobby Kotick

    *would comment more* :( desperately need an edit button.

  • Grant Hinds

    Myself.

  • Philip

    I’ve got this friend Occam, and he’s got a razor you might be interested in =P

    Be as it may, it just seems hypocritical to me to use that image in conjunction with the article’s content, and I doubt there’s anything anyone can say that would change my mind on the matter.

  • Sir James, Knight of Bobby Kotick

    @Philip What’s wrong with sex or the fact that it sells? The mere fact that it could potentially be used to exploit does not change the fact that it’s fine as an advertising product PROVIDED it involves CONSENTING adults. The above featured image is fine for what it is, and as I’ve already mentioned it’s effective imagery and in fact allows Noelle’s column to pack even more of a punch, and be even more relevant.

  • easy

    open any glossy mag and there’s enough flesh to satisfy the most ardent sexual deviants out there.
    i’m not saying it’s right or wrong, merely stating the obvious, or at least i thought it was obvious :P

  • Sir James, Knight of Bobby Kotick

    I’m well acquainted with Occam’s Razor my friend, but are you well versed in how not to commit a straw man fallacy (just a warning though, I teach philosophy of science to first and second year students so go easy tiger…).

  • Philip

    @SJKoBK: Okay, my original comment might have been poorly worded. It was a bit of a knee-jerk reaction, in all honesty.

    Read it then that I’m of the opinion that in this specific case it was selected in poor taste, and if it was only done to pull MOAR CLICKS = MOAR TRAFFIC = MOAR AD DOLLARZ (as easy was suggesting in his comment) then it sinks even lower in my eyes.

    You’re entitled to your opinion that it’s the pinnacle of pertinent imagery, just as I’m entitled to mine that it’s an extremely poor choice.

    I was merely voicing that opinion in my original top-level comment.

  • Sir James, Knight of Bobby Kotick

    Would it change your mind if she actually chose that image herself?

  • Philip

    @SJKoBK Probably not, yo.

  • Bonk

    Ok what does philosophy of science have to do with the female mind Sir James?

  • Sir James, Knight of Bobby Kotick

    Same here! Gaming is better when your’re in your underwear.

  • Sir James, Knight of Bobby Kotick

    Absolutely nothing, unless Occam’s Razor is unceremoniously invoked during a debate (probably in hopes to score pseudo-intellectual points), then the weapons of mass destruction need to be enabled, and I unleash the logical fallacies, and become even more elitist.

    It’s like hitting super saiyan level 4 … :P

  • Philip

    I thought pseudo-intellectual elitism is what commenting on the Internet is all about!

  • Sir James, Knight of Bobby Kotick

    Then, you’ve lost the deeper intent and meaning of contrasting the image and the opinion piece. Stereotypes of female gamers remain because they are left unchallenged, and the best way to challenge these views are actually through comparing contrasting persistent negative notions with positive ones.

  • Bonk

    Who in their right mind would want to teach philosophy of science twice nogal to 1st and 2nd year students.

    How many girl gamers watch Dragon Ball?

  • Bonk

    just don’t drink hot beverages while gaming in underwear.

  • Sir James, Knight of Bobby Kotick

    @Bonk: Dude… I know, and it’s sadly wasted on those unwashed heathens.

    @Philip: So true :P The internet was made for pron and pseudo-intellectual elitist discussion on the web.

  • TT-25

    yeah, there is always one or five. I love games cause its an escape from reality, I love being able to go into an MP game with my friends and just blow Sh!t up. when it comes to SP games, I want a good story, great graphics and appreciate the game. I honestly dont care if men wanna sterotype us and think they better. I dont play games to try be better then them. So what i have the same hobby as a man does. Back in the day, it was always known as a Man’s world, and when I started gaming a lot more, you have to fit in or *#@% off. But there is always a level of respect that needs to be given whether you a man or a woman. sorry RANT over.

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